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Don’t worry, it’s not your fault..
You know what I’m talking about.
That thing.
That thing you wanted to achieve, to buy, to learn, to get done or to accomplish….that thing that you failed at…. that you continue to fail at…
it is not your fault.
It’s his fault, or hers, or theirs…but not you. No, no, no. Not you.
“If only….” Is the culprit.
The cause of all your woes.
IF ONLY….
• my partner would exercise with me
• I had more time
• I had more money
• I had someone to share my passion
• they would share my hobbies
• my friends would eat healthy with me
• my peers would abstain from vices
• my kids did not occupy so much of my time
• I’d stayed in school
• I had better genetics
• my parents would have taught me more
• they would encourage me

blah blah blah blah blah blahhhhhhh.
THOSE ARE ALL LIES!!
The B.S. excuses we use to avoid the burden of success.
Just stop.
You can do it. You are responsible for yourself and no one else.
You are good enough. You got this.
You need to build a scenario where YOU and YOU ALONE can succeed.
Never base success on the assistance of anyone other than the best friend that has ALWAYS been there…… been there from your very first breath and will continue to be there until your final exhale…
You.
It does not mean that you can’t count on others, or not to depend on others.
That’s ok.
Continue to surround yourself with love.
It just means that you need to count on yourself first and foremost before counting on anyone else.
If you want to help people, I mean truly help….
Not to simply be a Band-Aid solution or a stopgap measure.
Not just a shoulder to cry on or a pat on the back.
To be a powerful force for change in this world
You do so by making yourself a shining example
By being the best YOU, you can be.
Then, you are in the right position to help people.
We all have a responsibility in this world to find that little piece of magic that is inside us, that one thing we can do so very well….and make it GROW! Find your miracle and empower it. Fine tune it and polish it until it shines! Use your magical quality as a beacon for others but more importantly….FOR YOURSELF!
If you spend your time constantly lifting others up, eventually you will be crushed under their weight.
So…
Who is responsible for your success?
YOU
Who needs to be put first if you truly want to have the skill, energy, power and love to TRULY help others in a deep and meaningful way?
YOU
Who needs your trust, love, respect and attention?
YOU
No one is going to do the work for you.
No one can reap the rewards for you.
That person you were always looking for…is right there.
In you.

Set them free and let them flourish.
THRIVE.
Be the YOU…you deserve. You’re worth it.

Love,
Coach B

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Coach B Column

DSF Headshots-1

Don’t worry, it’s not your fault..
You know what I’m talking about.
That thing.
That thing you wanted to achieve, to buy, to learn, to get done or to accomplish….that thing that you failed at…. that you continue to fail at…
it is not your fault.
It’s his fault, or hers, or theirs…but not you. No, no, no. Not you.
“If only….” Is the culprit.
The cause of all your woes.
IF ONLY….
• my partner would exercise with me
• I had more time
• I had more money
• I had someone to share my passion
• they would share my hobbies
• my friends would eat healthy with me
• my peers would abstain from vices
• my kids did not occupy so much of my time
• I’d stayed in school
• I had better genetics
• my parents would have taught me more
• they would encourage me

blah blah blah blah blah blahhhhhhh.
THOSE ARE ALL LIES!!
The B.S. excuses we use to avoid the burden of success.
Just stop.
You can do it. You are responsible for yourself and no one else.
You are good enough. You got this.
You need to build a scenario where YOU and YOU ALONE can succeed.
Never base success on the assistance of anyone other than the best friend that has ALWAYS been there…… been there from your very first breath and will continue to be there until your final exhale…
You.
It does not mean that you can’t count on others, or not to depend on others.
That’s ok.
Continue to surround yourself with love.
It just means that you need to count on yourself first and foremost before counting on anyone else.
If you want to help people, I mean truly help….
Not to simply be a Band-Aid solution or a stopgap measure.
Not just a shoulder to cry on or a pat on the back.
To be a powerful force for change in this world
You do so by making yourself a shining example
By being the best YOU, you can be.
Then, you are in the right position to help people.
We all have a responsibility in this world to find that little piece of magic that is inside us, that one thing we can do so very well….and make it GROW! Find your miracle and empower it. Fine tune it and polish it until it shines! Use your magical quality as a beacon for others but more importantly….FOR YOURSELF!
If you spend your time constantly lifting others up, eventually you will be crushed under their weight.
So…
Who is responsible for your success?
YOU
Who needs to be put first if you truly want to have the skill, energy, power and love to TRULY help others in a deep and meaningful way?
YOU
Who needs your trust, love, respect and attention?
YOU
No one is going to do the work for you.
No one can reap the rewards for you.
That person you were always looking for…is right there.
In you.

Set them free and let them flourish.
THRIVE.
Be the YOU…you deserve. You’re worth it.

Love,
Coach B

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